Psychiatrist calls for lithium to be added to Ireland’s water
(hat tip: Infowars)
GORDON DEEGAN
Irish Times
December 2, 2011
COMMENT: Among other rationales, so-called experts justify the lithium proposal on the assumed success of water fluoridation, which itself has proved to be a menace rather than benefit.
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A consultant psychiatrist last night called on Government to add lithium salts to the public water supply in a bid to lower the suicide rate and depression among the general population.
At a mental health forum on “Depression in Rural Ireland” in Ennistymon, Co Clare, Dr Moosajee Bhamjee said that “there is growing scientific evidence that adding trace amounts of the drug lithium to a water supply can lower rates of suicide and depression”.
Lithium is used by doctors as a mood stabiliser in the treatment for depression.
Dr Bhamjee said: “A recent article in the British Journal of Psychiatry found the beneficial uses of lithium when it was added to the water supply in parts of Texas.”
Lithium in drinking water and the incidences of crimes, suicides, and arrests related to drug addictions.
Schrauzer GN, Shrestha KP.
Source
Department of Chemistry and Biochemistry, University of California at San Diego, Revelle College, La Jolla 92093.
Abstract
Using data for 27 Texas counties from 1978-1987, it is shown that the incidence rates of suicide, homicide, and rape are significantly higher in counties whose drinking water supplies contain little or no lithium than in counties with water lithium levels ranging from 70-170 micrograms/L; the differences remain statistically significant (p less than 0.01) after corrections for population density. The corresponding associations with the incidence rates of robbery, burglary, and theft were statistically significant with p less than 0.05. These results suggest that lithium has moderating effects on suicidal and violent criminal behavior at levels that may be encountered in municipal water supplies. Comparisons of drinking water lithium levels, in the respective Texas counties, with the incidences of arrests for possession of opium, cocaine, and their derivatives (morphine, heroin, and codeine) from 1981-1986 also produced statistically significant inverse associations, whereas no significant or consistent associations were observed with the reported arrest rates for possession of marijuana, driving under the influence of alcohol, and drunkenness. These results suggest that lithium at low dosage levels has a generally beneficial effect on human behavior, which may be associated with the functions of lithium as a nutritionally-essential trace element. Subject to confirmation by controlled experiments with high-risk populations, increasing the human lithium intakes by supplementation, or the lithiation of drinking water is suggested as a possible means of crime, suicide, and drug-dependency reduction at the individual and community level.
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Wi-Fi radiation from laptops may cause infertility in men
By Elizabeth Walling
Natural News
December 2, 2011
(NaturalNews) Laptops with wi-fi technology have given us the capability to connect to the internet almost anywhere, but now researchers say wi-fi radiation may also be giving us more infertility by decreasing sperm motility and damaging DNA in sperm.
Is Your Wi-Fi Laptop Hurting Your Sperm?
Published in the medical journal Fertility and Sterility, the study looked at how radiation emitted from wi-fi laptops impacts sperm health. Researchers in Argentina took semen samples from 29 healthy men, and they measured sperm motility after four hours of exposure to wi-fi radiation from a laptop wirelessly connected to the internet. Sperm in the control group was kept at the same temperature for the same amount of time, but was not exposed to wi-fi radiation.
Of the sperm exposed to the wi-fi radiation, 25 percent stopped swimming. Only 14 percent of unexposed sperm ceased to swim after four hours. Wi-fi sperm also showed 9 percent DNA fragmentation, or irreversible damage in the genetic code, while sperm in the control group only showed 3 percent.
Electromagnetic radiation is a product of wireless communication, and researchers suggest this radiation may be causing sperm damage. “We speculate that keeping a laptop connected wirelessly to the internet on the lap near the testes may result in decreased male fertility,” say the researchers in their report. They also recommend more studies be done to examine the long-term impact of wi-fi radiation on sperm in a real world setting.
It’s important to note researchers compared radiation emissions in wi-fi laptops to laptops without wi-fi connection. Emissions from laptops without wi-fi were negligible, while emissions from wi-fi laptops was significantly higher.
Previous studies on laptops and fertility have produced similar results. Another legitimate concern is scrotal hyperthermia (elevated testicle temperature), which can easily occur if you sit with a laptop in your lap for hours at a time. Scrotal hyperthermia negatively impacts sperm quality and can cause decreased fertility.
The solution? Keep the laptop off your lap. Laptops may have been designed for convenient lap placement, but this is obviously not best for your health. Instead, use your laptop on a desk or get a specially designed laptop tray.
Also, use a wired internet connection when possible, as it appears the radiation emitted from wi-fi communications may be particularly harmful to sperm.
Sources for this article include:
http://www.foxnews.com/health/2011/…
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/art…
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_…
About the author:
Elizabeth Walling is a freelance writer specializing in health and family nutrition. She is a strong believer in natural living as a way to improve health and prevent modern disease. She enjoys thinking outside of the box and challenging common myths about health and wellness. You can visit her blog to learn more:
www.livingthenourishedlife.com/2009…
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December 1, 2011
Hemp bootstraps superior technologies, rescues capitalism from cannibalistic culture
By Justin Michels
Contributing writer for End the Lie
Synopsis: Our economic crisis is directly associated with a crippling dependence on unsustainable resources and their ever-growing scarcity. Developing sustainable resources is a necessary precursor to rebuilding the various manufacturing industries, which must again become the backbone of this great nation. True to legend, the industrial hemp plant stands ready for this monumental task. Offering not only an infinitely valuable resource, but also sobering lessons for the evolution of capitalism and American culture.
The cutting edge of our green economy
In February of 1938, Popular Mechanics magazine touted hemp as the “New billion Dollar Crop”; just a few short months after Congress had passed the infamous Marihuana Tax Act, effectively outlawing the industrial crop. Henry Ford’s dream to “grow our transportation” became a distant memory, as unsustainable resource extraction remained a cash cow for the likes of William Randolph Hearst and others hell-bent on quick profit instead of lasting prosperity.
However, as Lotus proved in 2008 with their Eco Elise pictured below, not all companies are driven only to maximize profit. Some have far better motives, resulting in a far superior product:
According to the Lotus engineers, “..Sustainable hemp technical fabrics have been used as the primary constituent in the high quality “A” class composite body panels and spoiler. The renewable hemp has exceptional material properties that make for a very strong fibre…”
Thanks to a remarkable set of physical characteristics and beneficial environmental impact, hemp allows for the evolution of products far superior in performance when compared to those derived from trees, cotton and petroleum products; among many others. Displayed below are more examples of current hemp products:
- Credit: Studio Aisslinger
- Credit: Guitar Site
- Credit: North American Hemp Co.
Credit: Kirei USA
Credit: Rawganique
Credit: CarGuideBlog
Credit: Patagonia
Credit: Dornob
Credit: LivingHarvest
Credit: Manitoba Harvest
Shortages of hemp fiber abound — but for how long?
My original intent was to include a material called Crailar in the above list; however, it turns out the manufacturer recently switched away from hemp to flax. Simply because the limited availability of reasonably priced hemp fiber cannot presently sustain the overwhelming market demand for this remarkable material. Their recently inked contracts include the likes of Carhartt, Levi and Hanes.
Then again, Naturally Advanced Technologies (manufacturers of Crailar) also states on their website that “..As a result of the commercialization of the Advanced Materials division, a surplus of hemp seed will be created…” Which they plan on turning into the most advanced and ecologically-sound fuel on earth.
For those of us who think hemp can replace our dependence on foreign oil, this is where things get interesting. Is there any possible way we can grow enough hemp to fuel our vehicles and our starving economy? The short answer is yes, but not so much in the short term. Although China is already well on their way:
The first quarter of 2010, the economic operation of China’s hemp industry
“..According to customs statistics, 1 February 2010, China’s hemp fiber, textile and products (excluding apparel) imports and exports amounted to 240 million U.S. dollars, up 26.66 percent, of which 161 million U.S. dollars export value, up 25%; imports the amount of 78.64 million U.S. dollars, up 30.2%.”
In order to overcome our dependence on fossil fuels altogether and supply manufacturers with the highly-prized hemp fiber, our agriculture industry must be effectively turned on its ear. A task which doesn’t sound very easy, until you consider how much farmers have to gain from the situation. In addition to how much we, as consumers, have to gain by fueling our vehicles and ourselves with hemp instead of petroleum or corn. (please note the slow pun)
The benefits of eating hemp nuts (or seeds) constitute a remarkably broad topic, which is perfectly contrasted by the detriments of consuming highly-processed forms of corn. Something the vast majority of Americans do unknowingly, thanks to a variety of factors I won’t go into here; except to point out that a healthy, happy person requires far less money to survive than a typical consumer.
If Americans can somehow be persuaded to incorporate protein-rich hemp in their diets, as a replacement for meat and source of essential nutrients we typically lack; it will free up an awful lot of extra land for hemp cultivation. In order for that to happen on a large scale, the price of hemp seeds and the many delicious products they are in need to fall a long way. One of countless catch-22’s which still haunt this otherwise phenomenally successful industry.
Getting over these obstacles will undoubtedly require an end to our insane prohibition of hemp in the U.S. and abroad, however a simple change of perception among cannabis activists and entrepreneurs ought to be a great start.
Medical cannabis cultivation has already developed a completely sustainable, multi-billion dollar industry in the United States. An industry which has also revolutionized many parts of agriculture and will continue doing so for decades to come. Perhaps most notably in the form of vertical farms and the various technologies which they employ.
In an odd twist of fate, the high price of cannabis which prohibition has caused is also helping drive the evolution of technologies necessary for developing the sustainable resources we must rely on in the near future. Meanwhile, industrial hemp fibers are already growing abundantly right here in the U.S.; in the form of medical cannabis stalks.
Hemp is obviously not marijuana, yet medical Cannabis “waste” actually is hemp
A while back, I started considering the idea of opening a hemp processing facility here in my home state of Montana — where the industrial plant has already been technically legal for years, but nobody has harvested a single crop (to the best of my knowledge.) There was one farmer who applied for and received a state-issued permit back in 2009; then decided not to plant, because it would have been impossible to process and sell the harvest without a huge upfront investment.
Seeing the medical cannabis industry take off and boom for a while (before the feds decided to play jihad in Montana) gave me an idea: why not try processing medical cannabis stalks into industrial hemp? There was no indication from my Googling efforts that anybody else had attempted doing so, but the physical properties looked similar enough to warrant an experiment.
Luckily, state law regards the stalks and stems as waste instead of medicine; meaning there were no legal hoops to jump through or even a marginally-justifiable reason for persecution. The traditional process of water retting yielded fibers indistinguishable from the industrial hemp fibers displayed in various books and online. Then I quickly learned how difficult it is to manually process the strongest fiber on earth.
A task which has been described by some as the most frustrating physical labor known to man, with the end result being one of the most highly coveted raw materials imaginable. In addition to creating organic fertilizer as a natural bi-product of the retting process. Turning my little experiment into a potentially very lucrative business venture (and strength-building exercise.) Providing the means to bootstrap a hemp processing facility into existence before any hemp has even been planted in the state!
Upon speaking with the Montana Cannabis Industry Association and others about the possibility of starting a hemp processing facility, I soon discovered there is already a group looking into the possibility of turning the abandoned paper mill near Missoula into just such a facility. We are now in the process of collaboration and actively looking for others interested in helping to develop this project or possibly start one of their own. For more information, please contact me at gonzo0013@gmail.com.
Capitalism is our friend, corruption is the enemy
Beyond the cannabis industries themselves, the impact of these plants ranges far and wide. Ushering in a new era of sustainable resource development. While also helping to expose the various corruptions which plague capitalism today.
Somewhere in Europe, there are already a handful of giant state-of-the-art greenhouses full of cannabis being legally grown for medical use. An extraction process is used by the “manufacturer”, GW Pharmaceuticals; in order to produce their trademarked pharmaceutical, Sativex.
Personally, I see a lot of benefits which can stem from developing ingestion methods superior to smoking the herb; but this particular product has been around in various forms for a number of years and gained a reputation of being far inferior to the raw plant available on the street and in pseudo-legal pharmacies at a more reasonable price (but definitely not covered by Medicare.)
Pills containing synthetic THC have also rated poorly among those who’ve had a chance to try the real thing. The DEA has already conceded there are roughly 60 facilities across the United States producing medical cannabis for use in pills, under-tonque sprays and who knows what else. But, in order to keep us from growing our own and cutting dependence on these giant corporations, they must lie by claiming this most famous of all medicinal plants has absolutely no medical value.
While our ‘public servants’ continue to shut down co-ops and non-profits who help people gain access to safe, organic medicine; consensus opinion across the U.S. and abroad has firmly supported the protection of medical liberties in the face of unchecked corporate greed. A few politicians have already woken up; but, more importantly, the citizens have taken matters into their own hands — bypassing our inept representatives and bureaucratic jungle altogether through voter referendums and ongoing lawsuits.
Up here in Montana, the medical cannabis industry made history earlier this year by formally challenging the validity of our recently passed, highly-controversial new cannabis law. The lawsuit, filed by the Montana Cannabis Industry Association (MTCIA), was already partially successful in protecting our once-booming industry from total annihilation.
The MTCIA also helped inspire similar lawsuits which have reportedly been filed in Colorado and California; challenging our government’s insane drug war at a time when even the United Nations has conceded it is time to take the power away from terrorists and criminal organizations everywhere by dismantling our failed prohibition.
My overall point here is we already have the tools in place to finally put an end to this insanity; but we also must recognize the broader need for government reform and develop ways to overcome corruption in both business and government (which, as some of us know thanks to the following clip from the 1976 classic, “Network“; are really one-in-the-same.)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zI5hrcwU7Dk
Finally, as perceptions about cannabis in America continue to change and the numerous industries surrounding the plant keep growing; the government will soon be forced into acknowledging the vast utility of both hemp and medical cannabis. It is now up to us, the legions of cannabis supporters across the world, to finish the job by educating our public officials and fellow citizens about the proven virtues of this plant. Taking it upon ourselves to create a new American dream, truly worth chasing.
More manufacturers wise enough to already be using hemp fibers include the following:
Adidas, American Lime Technology, LLC; BMW; Dr. Bronner’s Magic Soaps; Calfee Design; Converse; Cushe Footwear; EnviroTextiles, LLC; Foods Alive; Gramicci; Green Field Paper Company; Green Solutions Printing; Hemp Technologies, LLC; Hemp Hoodlamb; Hemp House/ Maui Sun & Surf; Hemp Traders; Hempfields Natural Goods; Hempy’s; Innocent Oils; Jung Maven; Lazy Dog Designs; Mercedes Benz; Mountain Hardware; Mountains of the Moon; Nature’s Hemp; Nature’s Path Organic Foods; Nutiva; Patagonia; Prana; Ruth’s Hemp Foods; Sanuk; Satori Movement; Sequel Naturals; Solay Lifestyle; Sympatico Clothing; Terran Apparel; The Merry Hempsters; The Hempest; Ultra Oil for Pets; Vital Hemp clothing; Way Out Wax; Whole Foods Market; Zendulgence Hemp Gelato; Zelfo Technology
A few key, charitable organizations aligned to help end the drug war and in need of our support:
Law Enforcement Against Prohibition (LEAP)
National Organization for the Reform of Marijuana Laws (NORML)
Americans for Safe Access (ASA)
Marijuana Policy Project (MPP)
Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies (MAPS)
Solid Proof That Weather Modification Projects Are Being Conducted All Over The United States
The American Dream
November 28, 2011
Most Americans still believe that our weather patterns are 100% natural and that our government has absolutely no control over the weather. Unfortunately, that is not the case at all.
What you are about to read is evidence that weather modification is happening right now all over the United States. This is never acknowledged by our politicians and it is never talked about by the mainstream media. But it is very, very real.
Weather modification programs in some parts of the country have been going on for many years and evidence of these programs is hidden in plain view. So does this mean that if we don’t like the weather we can just blame the government?
Well, yes it does, but it also means that the government has been seriously messing around with our environment and there could be “unintended consequences” that are far more dramatic than any of us ever dared to imagine.
Those that believed that the government was involved in weather modification were once considered to be “kooks”, but the truth is that authorities aren’t even trying to hide it anymore.
For example, the following was recently posted in the “Legal Notices” section of the classified ads in a local newspaper called The Tribune in San Luis Obispo, California….
NOTICE OF INTENTION WEATHER MODIFICATION PROGRAM THE SANTA BARBARA COUNTY WATER AGENCY HEREBY GIVES NOTICE OF INTENTION TO CONDUCT A WEATHER MODIFICATION PROGRAM NATURE AND PURPOSE: The purpose of the project is to increase rainfall to help alleviate deficiencies of water supplies in Santa Barbara County. Clouds would be seeded by the dispersal of Silver Iodide (AgI). Two possible modes of seeding, air based and ground based, would be used. LOCATION OF PURPOSE: Project operations could be conducted during the period between November 15 and April 15, for each year, 2011-2012 through 2015-2016. Airborne seeding operations would utilize air space over Santa Barbara County, portions of San Luis Obispo County as well as the Pacific Ocean immediately west of Santa Barbara and San Luis Obispo Counties. Ground based seeding operations would be conducted from the Santa Ynez Mountains, the Casmalia Hills and the San Rafael Mountains. The target areas for seeding operations are the watersheds behind Cachuma and Gibraltar reservoirs on the Santa Ynez River as well as Twitchell reservoir on the Cuyama River. LICENSEE: The project would be operated and supervised by a licensed weather modification consultant.
Can it get much clearer than that?
The Santa Barbara County water agency is telling the world that it plans to conduct a weather modification program and it is explaining exactly how it will be done.
If you are thinking that this is something new, you might want to guess again.
Weather modification projects have been conducted down in Texas for years.
The following comes from the website of the Texas Department of Licensing and Regulation….
Currently, cloud-seeding projects designed to increase rainfall from convective cloud towers are conducted in nearly 31 million acres of Texas (or almost one-fifth of the state’s land area). In administering the Texas Weather Modification Act (enacted by the Texas Legislature in 1967), TDLR’s weather modification program issues licenses and permits for these projects, many of which have been in existence since 2000. The projects use specialized aircraft and sophisticated weather radar systems, operated by skilled meteorologists, at sites near Amarillo, Plains, Pecos, San Angelo, and Pleasanton.
Anyone still want to be a skeptic after reading that?
According to the Texas state government, these weather modification projects have been going on down in Texas since the year 2000.
So if you live in Texas and you don’t like the weather, just blame Rick Perry.
But weather modification projects are not just happening in the United States. The truth is that they are going on all over the globe.
An article from the Guardian a couple of years ago talked about the mammoth weather modification projects that have been happening in China….
The Chinese air force claimed today that the biggest weather modification operation in the country’s history cleared the skies over Tiananmen Square just in time for the National Day parade.
I write this post under gorgeously azure skies. Instead of the dull haze I have grown used to in Beijing over the past few years, the light is so sharp that it almost hurts my eyes.
The transformation is so dramatic it is eerie. When I flew into Beijing yesterday, the city was shrouded in what looked like a thick smog.
An article posted on arabianbusiness.com talked about the extraordinary weather modification projects that have been sponsored by the Abu Dhabi government….
Scientists working for the Abu Dhabi government created more than 50 rainstorms in Al Ain in July and August of 2010, during the peak of the emirate’s summer months.
The rains are part of a secret $11m project, reportedly commissioned by HH Sheikh Khalifa bin Zayed Al Nahyan, President of the UAE, which used ionisers to generate storms, the UK’s Sunday Times said.
It is thought to be the first time the team had produced man-made rain from otherwise clear skies.
According to the report, scientists used large ionisers, which resemble lampshades, to generate fields of negatively charged particles. That in turn creates cloud formation, leading to rain.
Over 122 days through the summer months, the emitters were switched on 74 times when atmospheric humidity reached the required level of 30 percent or more.
During that time, Al AIn experienced rainfall on 52 occasions on days when the country’s own weather service had predicted no clouds and no rain.
Are you starting to get the picture?
Unfortunately, we have no idea what the potential side effects of all of this weather modification will be.
Yes, we are learning to change the weather, but meanwhile our weather seems to be getting more unstable than ever. Over the course of this past year we have seen an incredible onslaught of natural disasters. Nearly every single region of the U.S. has been affected.
So obviously we are very far from mastering our control of the weather. In fact, we might actually be making things much worse by monkeying around with the weather.
But our authorities continue to want to play God.
For example, have you ever gone outside and looked up into the sky and been surprised to see it streaked with long white lines that don’t seem to go away for hours and hours?
They are known as “chemtrails”, and virtually none of our politicians will talk about them and virtually nobody in the mainstream media will talk about them.
But are we supposed to ignore the fact that they are there? All of us can see the planes leaving these trails and all of us can see that they stay up there for hours and hours.
This phenomenon is happening all over the world, and it is generally assumed that some kind of massive geo-engineering program is taking place.
The following video contains more information about these “chemtrails”. As you can see, there is a huge difference between the “contrails” that quickly dissipate behind airplanes and the “chemtrails” that are purposely being sprayed above all of our major cities….
So what do all of you think about weather modification and chemtrails? Please feel free to leave a comment with your opinion below….
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(hat tip: The Intel Hub)
Top 5 Regrets of The Dying
Bonnie Ware
Inspiration and Chai
November 30, 2011
For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.
People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.
When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.
It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.
By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.
We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.
When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.
Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.
Bonnie Ware is the author of the the new book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. Visit her official website Inspiration and Chai.
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(hat tip: Activist Post)


